Southern California Muslim Mothers' sponsor Public Kitchen

I needed to share some news of 'Khair' (goodness) for the generosity our sisters in Southern California have shown in feeding the hungry in Pakistan.

The brothers in the pictures below have been your guest for a whole week, sisters!
We are grateful to you for trusting us with your hard earned money and giving us Taufiq to help reach the deserving.

Brothers saying Dua (prayer) before meal

Dastarkhwan (runner for serving food) laid out at road side

About 125-150 people ate every night at 6.00 pm for a whole week.
Chicken Curry and wheat Roti were served.
Approx 900 people fed with $416 ($0.40 per meal).
One of the sisters entrusted us with her Zakat money which went a long way in continuing with this and other programs.
Insha Allah each person sitting on these 'dastarkhwan' will bear witness to the sisters who contributed to feeding them that day when they had no food.

May Allah give Barakah in this food, Ameen.

Aurangzeb (second from right) rep Lahaute with brothers
running the public kitchen. All volunteering for a cause.

What Khair these mothers and sisters in Southern California spread here and what wealth they accumulated with Allah Subhaanu Taala.  

'Langar' Public Kitchen

'Langar' is a Persian word, which means a public kitchen established to provide food and drink to the needy.

In one of the Markaz in Islamabad under a simple banner at a corner is a Langar for the refugees and the miskin.  The person heading it is hoping some people with generous hearts will book some days so food can be offered once a day every day at this public kitchen as some 125-150 people collect at 6.00 pm to eat here.  One such person had already booked all Thursdays (significance of this day as your deeds are taken up) for one full year.  Allah gives 'Taufiq' (opportunity, success).  ".......and my success (in my task) can only come from Allah. In Him I trust, and unto Him I look. " (Qur'an 11:88)


Commitments are needed.  Some days there is food donated otherwise the poor can see when the ‘dastarkhwan’ (runners to put food on) are not laid on the ground, a sign that there is no food available that evening.

Making a long Dua before the meal.

Prior to serving food a 'Dua' is offered.  They said such a long and sincere dua for the ones who have given from their earnings to feed them that day that it brought tears to our eyes.  I couldn't help but see the difference between my dua and theirs....the difference in circumstances was as stark as the power in their dua and mine.  How could mine compare to theirs, with empty stomachs and Sabr and Shukr....no comparison whatsoever.  Angels must be rushing to take their duas to be accepted...do we take the time to thank Allah when he provides us with the abundance that he has given us?  We must not be deluded to think that the abundance he has given us is for our own selves, but that there are rights of others in it.  We are not doing them a favor, we are making an effort to fulfill our obligations.  

A pot of ‘Rice with garbanzo beans is usually donated because it costs the least Rs 2500/pot ($30 per pot that feeds approx 70 hungry).  An old man said, ‘a langar is the same most of the places, they give rice but it digests very quickly.  If we got Roti ‘wheat bread’ it would last longer’ implying it would take longer to digest.  Something we do not have to consider because we can always eat something else whenever we are hungry but they have to wait till the next serving of rice is available or something affordable after a hard day of labor.

It is heart breaking to see dignified men taking off shoes and sitting in rows on the ground around the ‘dastarkhwan’ waiting for food to be served and bread handed in their hands.  I thought eating meat must be rare for them, but I tell you getting one full meal a day is rare, having Roti is rare, getting seconds is rare,…..

I see laborers working in the heat of the day all day only to give one meal to their children.  Then waiting in line at the Langar to take a few bites of rice from a small poly bag and even that they pack to use for later or take home to their families.  

Only $0.50 feeds one brother or sister.  

'Those who spent their wealth for increase in self purification, 
And have in their minds no favour from anyone
for which a reward is expected in return,
But only the desire to seek the Countenance of their Lord Most High;
And soon will they attain (complete) satisfaction'-(Quran 92:18)

Earth is their bed

Using packaging  to make his bed

On January 13^th 2011, a program was being shown on TV in Pakistan with a journalist interviewing brothers who take refuge in the ‘markaz’ (shopping district) of F-8 one of the most affluent areas in Islamabad, Pakistan's capital city.  They are day laborers who have come from Northern parts of Pakistan like Swabi, to find work in Islamabad.  None of them can afford any kind of housing so they have the earth as their bed and the sky as their roof.  Only when it rains are they allowed to take shelter in the open corridors of the shopping areas. 

It is perplexing and shameful that in Islamabad, with temperatures as low as 28º F (-2ºC), hub for most of the non profit organizations’ headquarters, the hub for all embassies, diplomats, and governing elite, there is no compassion towards ones in dire need of the basics residing amongst such affluence.

Truck delivering the bedding sets

Shahina, my mother who wanted to give the donations Lahaute had received from the sisters in Orange County, California to the most needy, realized that this is no ordinary coincidence and that she was meant to see this and these were the most in need and this imanah is meant to reach them.  She talked to me in the US our night very excited that she had found the rightful owners of the donated funds.

Aurangzeb making arrangements with a volunteer

She left for Islamabad, a 4 hour drive, the following morning, visited the area to see with her own eyes if it was true what the TV program shared.  However she had expected that most probably lots of help must have already arrived since it was telecast on national television with welfare and government organizations under scrutiny.  To her amazement, no one else had stepped up to help.  Other volunteers in Lahaute's team, in order to ensure their plight was as accurately represented, went at night to see if these brothers really spent the nights out in the cold. 

They were sleeping when they went.  Some had an opened carton, others had jute sac used for storing wheat to lie on, while still others had spread their chaddar (wrap/shawl) to use for a bed.  One of the volunteers considered himself poor and looking at them made him realize what real poverty is. 

Distributing

The next day tokens were given to each of the deserving. This was to get a count of how many were in need so an order could be placed for the bedding.  Approximately a hundred stood in line in the cold for more than an hour to get a token for free bedding.  “They showed such respect, none of them broke the line or got agitated…..(an uncommon experience in Pakistan when even the affluent show little civil ethics)…..one of the elderly even offered to bring tea for me”, says Shahina.. 

The next morning an order was placed for 100 sets of bedding.  Each set included a quilted mat to lie on, a comforter, and a pillow, costing Pakistani Rupees 700 each (approx US $8.50). Since they were day laborers with all returning late in the evening, they had requested the distribution at night time.  The security guards at the markaz warned Aurangzeb (Lahaute volunteer organizing this program) that distributing free bedding to them late at night may jeopardize security and cause a disturbance since there are so many in need.  Aurangzeb went to apologize to them who were waiting to be handed what was promised.  It took some courage on his part as standing in such temperatures at 9.00 pm in a long queue is not easy especially after a hard day of work, very little food and no place to sleep.  But to Aurangzeb’s surprise his apology was accepted so graciously with a warm hug from each of the approx 100 brothers in line.  They were requested to come at noon the next day to which they obliged to happily.  I wanted to share the details like these because to me, they tell you a lot about the Adab (manners) and Sabr (patience) such beautiful people show even in extreme adversity.  If this does not represent control over Nafs (self) what does?

Happily walking away

At noon the next day, the truck came with the bedding promptly,  there was no chaos, no disruption but sabr, shukr (thankfulness) and adab.  The ones handing out the goods, were finding it hard to articulate what joy they felt doing what they were doing.  What beautiful people, what is this bond we have with each other…..that unsaid bond of ‘Yaqeen’(belief) in Allah, His subservience, and the Ikhlaas (sincerity of intent) of one giving and the other accepting.

This brother brought his 8 year old to help

It seemed they did not have enough for all.
Approximately another 100 brothers in need of bedding had gathered around waiting to be helped as well.  With no more to distribute they were bidden farewell with the promise that we will return with your bedding soon.  Some gave their names, a few had a contact address, others shared their plight, the number of dependents they have, one requested to be relieved of a debt,  yet another needed treatment for two handicapped daughters and the third with tuberculosis.  One had come from Muzzarfarhgarh, one of the badly affected areas in the recent floods.  Most of them are from Northern parts of Pakistan where the devastating earthquake hit in 2005 with still no evidence of recovery.

That day did not end there.  There were more wonderful surprises to come.  Aurangzeb of Lahaute, ready to head back home at night after exchanging his phone numbers to any brother who asked for it, was stopped by police and taken to the police station for investigation (law and order situation has prompted such checks) suddenly his phone rang and a brother from these refugees called to thank him.  Aurangzeb shared that he is at the police station in response the brother simply hung up.  In a matter of a few minutes, a large crowd gathered outside the police station, chanting ‘Hamarai aadmi ko raiha karoo’ ‘Free our brother! Free our brother’  The brother who had called, had woken up brothers sleeping outside, walked in the cold for 15-20 minutes to rally to the police station in order to get Aurangzeb released.  You can imagine, what Aurangzeb must have felt for them, when he could see how they felt for him.

These brothers who are refugees in this city cannot see their families for 6-12 months due to lack of funds to buy a bus ticket back home.  They are not old, but the circumstances have aged them.  Their households consist of 6-9 dependents each.  Look what they have and yet how each of this soul sleeping under the sky is also a caring son, looking after parents along with wife and several children whereas the ones who have more, abandon their parents.

A dignified brother forced to seek help

I am using this blog to provide feedback to those who entrusted us with their Zakat and Sadaqaat.  Initially I thought, these should be kept short for the convenience of the readers but I see that the little details carry a lot of weight, a lot of feeling, and a lot to think about so I must share this part with you as well. 

Are you willing to give them a warm bed to sleep in or they are to accept Earth as their bed?  If we do provide for one, know that Allah subhaanu taala is the One who gave us Shelter and I pray that He rewards you for every moment of the sleep and comfort a brother gets every night.  But if we decide not to hand them a blanket, know that they will be the ones insha Allah whose accounts will not be opened on the day of judgment and they shall be asked to enter Jannah without questioning, and on that day I would wish I had done a good deed towards them so they would give shahada in my favor and lighten the weight of my sins.  So this is how I see this.  They have a lot more to offer us than we have to offer them.  I assure you it is the best $10 you will ever spend.  Are you willing to give them a warm bed to sleep in or are they to accept earth as their bed?